Food Plans/Abstinence—Plan What You Do and Do What You Plan
“Everything is
permissible”—but not everything is beneficial… (l Corinthians 10:23, New
International Version)
Different Strokes
for Different Folks
Freedom from overeating and food obsession
is the goal. A healthy body is an obvious manifestation of success.
However, many find other surprising benefits when they surrender to the
disease of food addiction. They recognize a peace that passes all
understanding, and in time they find happiness and joy in trusting God each
new day.
When the Holy Spirit controls
our lives he will produce this kind of fruit in us: love, joy, peace,
patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control…
(Galatians 5:22-23, The Living Bible)
The recovery solution for
overeating is a controversial subject. There are many opinions and many
sources of information. My personal experience taught me to investigate the
possibilities. I asked God to help me discern the truth for me as a
food addict. I had already tried different approaches and different food
plans in my search for relief. Eventually, I got sick and tired of being
sick and tired. Full of Faith (or full of food?) is my
testimony—my experience, strength and hope—my conclusion thus
far. I humbly admit that I only know what I know. I can only share what
God has revealed to me in my years of abstinence, and I admit that
there are different strokes for different folks.
I strongly encourage everyone
to consider a healthy* plan of eating. With the help of God, it is
best to consult with a physician, dietitian or nutritionist for the best
solution to an individual’s dietary needs. Abstinence (recovery from
overeating and food obsession) is having a plan of eating and doing that
plan, whatever it is.
The 12-steps from the
Christian perspective and the outreach ministry of Full of Faith (or full
of food?) go beyond the physical—beyond the food plan. Emotional and
spiritual healing comes with God’s Word realized and activated. We can
share our knowledge of Jesus and let go our differences in eating regimes.
So whether you eat or drink or whatever you
do, do it all for the glory of God. (l Corinthians l0:31, New
International Version)
*I believe that a healthy plan of eating should include
the basics for good nutrition—a good balance of proteins, grains,
vegetables, fruits, dairy and fats. If a newcomer is not nutritionally
aware, a medical professional might feel more comfortable approving the Step
Easy Food Plan in this book (a more traditional approach), although the Zone
Diet with appropriate modifications could work, too.
Why Can’t I Stop
Overeating?
“For
some people, foods can be as addictive as alcohol,” Kay Sheppard tells us.
“Gummy bears and marshmallow chicks can be vicious killers whose effects can
lead to depression, irritability and even suicide. The terrible truth is
that for certain individuals, refined carbohydrates can trigger the
addictive process.” (Kay Sheppard, Food Addiction: The Body Knows,
Health Communications, Inc., back cover)
Food Addiction holds unique challenges. I
believe that a person seeking recovery from overeating and food
obsession needs to learn how to nourish a healthy body while abstaining from
addictive foods. To the food addict, sugar and flour cause cravings that
are insurmountable—overeating is inevitable. As the disease progresses,
physical and emotional manifestations become increasingly apparent; excess
weight, low self-esteem and depression are common symptoms.
Kay Sheppard, M.A., licensed mental health
counselor and certified eating disorder specialist, is an internationally
known consultant, trainer, therapist and author of Food Addiction, The
Body Knows and From the First Bite published by Health
Communications, Inc., Florida. She documents evidence that a chemical
imbalance exists in the physical and psychological make-up of a food addict.
For me, the intricacies of science and medicine
are informative, yet pale in comparison to my personal realization—I could
not stop overeating for any significant length of time until I stopped
eating refined carbohydrates. I tried. God knows I tried. Year after year
I pleaded, “God, heal me. I cannot stop overeating.” He ignored my
request, so I asked Him again, and again and again... I continued to
overeat despite constant attempts to diet and persistent prayer. One day I
heard, “God can move mountains; bring your shovel.”
On July 23, l988, I dug in, so to speak. I
surrendered my will and my life over to the care of God, and I opened my
mind and listened to people who were like me, but had found a way out of
their self-destructive behaviors.
For five years, I ate three meals a day with
nothing in between except black coffee, black tea or water. Sugar and flour
were considered taboo—no ands, ifs or buts. I stopped overeating and I
started walking toward the light.
[Jesus said], “I am the Bread
of Life. No one coming to me will ever be hungry again. Those believing in
me will never thirst.” (John 6:35, The Living Bible)
As time passed, my plan of eating evolved. I
stopped eating wheat, I stopped using caffeine and artificial sweeteners,
and I added metabolic adjustments (snacks) to my daily regime, one in the
afternoon and another at bedtime.